How do you stop having temporary confidence? You can’t.
There is no option that you would have super confidence all the time. You are a human being and you have various moods during the day. Your feelings about yourself are changing accordingly to situations you are in.
If you are in situation where you are a complete newbie – let’s say you are beginner in salsa dance, you probably won’t be confident in salsa because you are just at the beginning and you don’t know how to dance even basic steps. But if your experience grows, then your confidence grows accordingly.
So, don’t push yourself too hard when you are shy or awkward. It’s a normal thing in situatuions that are new for you or simply intimidating. Confidence isn’t arrogance. Confidence is being okay with yourself, being okay that you feel shyness, awkwardness etc.
There is a myth that you must be super-confident in every aspect in your life. That’s bullshit and you won’t ever find any person who behaves like that.
That’s my 2 cents about this issue. Write your opinion under this post. Peace!