Chase money not women, or maybe don’t chase any of them? I want to discuss this topic today. I came across few posts about that on the Internet and I want to share two of them right now, and I encourage you to read them.
The first entry is from the blog elitedaily.com.
Life focuses on two main concepts: money and women. Author says, that as guys, we are chasing these things. He advises to give up on chasing women and focus on following the money. When we will get the money, women will come automatically.
As the great legal Nas said: “You lose money chasing women, but you never lose women chasing after money.” This man knew exactly what he was talking about; you can not race both at the same time and have exactly what you want.
Women don’t want to be chased. They want to chase, they want to play games, they find nice guys who are chasing them boring. They do not want losers that will do anything only to get attention from them. They’re into real men, that are self confident, that are achieving successes and who can be also wealthy.
On the other hand Charles Sledge from the charlessledge.com blog writes that women are like money. He goes a little further, he says that you shouldn’t chase both. How to get money and women then?
By creating value.
With money, it means instead of chasing money and a plan that you think you get money, instead you need to build value, and then money will be attracted to you. Something like cats with tuna. Chase them all day, just start to linger, give them value instead, and they’ll all come to you.
You build your value on the market, giving value to others, doing things that consolidate your expert status and invest in yourself through education, such as books, films and courses. Once you build your value, it is when the money comes to you and not chase after it. Hustles are important when it comes to working on yourself, but the difficult attempt to earn money is ultimately counter-productive.
The conclusion of this post is that you have to focus on yourself. Focus on creating value by developing your passions, your businesses and making more money, then you will have many women.
In a world where nice guys are in majority, who are putting every woman on a pedestal, these posts can make them feel resentful. Feminists also can be very upset about that. Unfortunately (or not), we live in a real world, not invented by some idealistic white knights on a white horses, who think that when they will do everything for women, these in return will give them the keys to their pussy.
Creating value is essential. It’s a fact that when some product have high value – like iPhone for example, everyone wants to buy it. This is exactly like with men. When we are valuable guys who have successes in life, have fun and enjoy ourselves and our lives, then we draw women.
Chasing after women gives nothing. Of course, you can get laid few times if you do massive approaching, but it will be at a great expense. You will lose a valuable time that you could use to improve yourself. When you focus on yourself, focus on developing your value, you will not have to worry about either money or women.
Of course, I don’t say to be passive and wait for these to come. You still need to approach and seduce women and you still need to make these business deals and showing off. You just can’t be desperate about it.
Be awesome, be a true alpha male and you will have money and women.